Nice guys v ‘nice guys’
Nice guys, to us, means guys who are nice because they’re nice. They’re nice to us, they’re nice to old ladies, they’re nice to dogs, and kids, and other guys. This is the kind of guy we want. We don’t want EVERY GUY WHO IS LIKE THIS, because there are other factors involved, but we’ll get to those in a minute.
However, fraudulent ‘nice guys’ will lavish (sometimes completely unwanted) attention on a woman in the hope that she’ll sleep with him and then, when it doesn’t work and she gets together with someone else, he will either implode or explode in rage at the unfairness of it all, and declare women to be bitches of the highest order, and nice guys to finish last.
These are the guys who will tell you that women don’t like nice guys, and these are the guys you should get as far away from as possible – maybe after you’ve set them straight on behalf of all womankind.
There’s so much wrong with this ‘nice guy’s’ world view that I don’t even know where to start, so I’ll use a sneakers analogy instead.