Now, the nitty gritty. I speak from experience, so I’ll try to explain the way to pull it off most effectively.
When it comes to approaching women to talk to them for the first time, the key here is low pressure. You need to create a situation where you won’t feel rejected, and she won’t feel hounded.
Give her a little glimpse of your personality and then back away and leave things open so that the decision over whether to pursue it or not lies with her.
The woman must always have the choice of whether she’s talking with you or not, and that can make all the difference.